We hope you didn't miss another amazing message in the "Irresistible" series. Pastor Conway guided us through Daniel 1 to discuss the Four Traits of an Irresistible Single (message notes below).

We want to do things a little different in this week's blog. We want to hear from the SINGLE MEN and WOMEN. Leave the "holier than thou" at the door and share with other singles...

1) What you love about the single life
2) What you dislike about being single
3) Why you want to get married
4) What scares you most about marriage 
5) Situations in which you lived out one of the "Traits of an Irresistible Single"
6) And of course, what you think about the 30-Day Sex Challenge for Singles and your Five Emotional Needs (remember...be honest, but keep it clean)

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Message Notes: The Four Traits of the Irresistible Single (Daniel 1)

The Irresistible Single has...
Conviction (Daniel 1:8)
a. We cannot make our decisions based on what feels good.
b. Our standard must be to go through the filter of God's word in making our decisions.
c. We must develop a lifestyle of living by our convictions when we are single, so that when we get married those convictions will be a natural part of who we are.

Faith (Daniel 1:11-12)
a. Acting like it is so, even when it's not so, until it becomes so (ex. David & Goliath/Israelites crossing the Red Sea).
b. Whenever God asks you to follow Him and you don't know the future, He's preparing you for a WOW God moment

Excellence
a. Vocation vs. Occupation - Vocation is using your God-given spiritual gifts His kingdom (everyone has a spiritual gift); Occupation is what we get paid to do, which allows us to work in our vocation
b. On your job you must be the best of the best. You should be the person others come to because you are an "expert" in your particular area.

Friends (Daniel 1:6 & 19)
a. Get someone or a group of people around you that can serve as your accountability and hold you to your convictions, faith and excellence (such as having a roommate or being a part of a life group).

Below, we have included the 30-Day Sex Challenge materials:

Emotional Needs Questionnaire.pdf (24.01 kb)

Sex Challenge Book.pdf (507.07 kb)

II. Understands her irresistible presence.
a) She seeks to be dignified rather than distracting. (Prov. 27:15)
b) She understand the impact of her emotional presence. (Prov. 21:9, 25:24, 21:19)
c) She understands the impact of her physical presence. (I Tim. 2:9-10)
d) She understands the impact of her spiritual presence.

III. Uses her irresistible power.
a) She uses her power in a way that influences not manipulates. (Acts 13:50)

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